This has been a thought that’s been troubling my mind for sometime – what does greatness mean and how do people get to that point ? Is greatness measured relative to oneself (how much you can possibly achieve) or with respect to the outside world ? I believe it’s the former one. You keep bettering yourself, and at every point, the limit to which you can stretch keeps increasing, you continue chasing that limit and there you see an endless pursuit. This would obviously make you grow higher and at some stage you would be relatively higher than rest of the world.
I think there are only 2 questions to answer
[1]What does grow higher refer to ?
Grow higher can refer to optimizing the growth for any parameter – money / fame / power , etc. It’s a very personal choice
[2]How to keep growing higher?
To keep growing higher, I believe you need to walk alone and give leeway to some randomness or chaos in your life
Crowded path
You somehow always get a choice at every stage [1] in life – to pick a path, one which is crowded (tried and tested) or to walk alone. When you pick up the path which is crowded, immediately the term average creeps in. This means a lot (most?) of them would be happy to be above 50 percentile. This indirectly implies your limit is decided by the surroundings and not by your true potential. If 90% of the class fail in an exam and you are a part of it, you might not be happy but you might not be sad either since you are doing okay with respect to the average parameter. Even if you are at the top, your performance is judged purely based on the crowd and this imposes a false limit on you.
Walking Alone
Here’s the other case – choosing a path that’s rarely traveled. You are alone and you need to create a path to get to the destination. This means none set your limits, you work hard, you manage your own performance and you increase your limits as you go.In turn implies, you would constantly work somewhere near your peak point which gives birth to something great. Consider the class example above, if you were to write the exam alone and failed, you would just be downright upset (no consolation). The brighter side is, you would push yourself to the limits next time, here the limits are set by you. As you walk further, you work as close as possible to your real peak.
Failure (which is again defined by you!) is pretty common in this path, but the good news is, as you keep taking this path, the odds of you doing the right stuff to grow higher increases [2].
Worst case: you would keep failing continuously and want to walk with the crowd, frustrated. This event is rare but even if it does happen, you would be happy that at some point you worked at your peak and your true potential.
How to walk alone?
If you have already charted a path of what you would be doing for the next 5 years, it’s impossible to walk alone. You know what you want to do at every stage. You have already considered the different possibilities and made your choices well ahead. I’m not saying it’s wrong, maybe you will end up getting what you want but it would just be a feeling of achieving something good when you had the chance to do something great.
Here’s a wonderful article by ZenHabits on living a goalless life. I’m not advocating a truly goalless life, have a short term goal, say for 6 months. This gives you the flexibility to change paths / look for bigger opportunities at every stage.
If someone asks me how would interviewstreet be in 2 years
time ?, what would I do when I am 30? , etc. – I truly don’t have an answer. Even my potential investors asked me for a 90-day & a 180-day plan only!
This is got nothing to do with a startup scenario, the choices are present for everyone from engineers who wants to switch to a managerial role [3] to a student who wants to choose a course.
Induce some randomness / chaos and see the results.
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[1] stage can refer to every day / every month, etc. depending on your current lifestyle
[2] Indian captain MS Dhoni is a great example. He failed in the match against SA by giving last over to Nehra.Much to everyone’s anger dropped Ashwin from semi-finals & finals, but he optimized for success (read win the World cup). Don’t go with a fixed plan, give leeway to randomness.
[3] I would be happy if they genuinely wanted to take up the role as opposed to sticking to the normal route